Hello! bloggers i've never open my blog for about 2 years ,but its not that long because years are short haha!
Right to the point ,i've got something to talk but nobody seems capable of understanding the thing i want to discuss ,maybe i kind of experiencing this thing when people around me haven't or they may just not understand my mind. So i think writing is the only solution to tell a thing called "happiness" .
This is gonna be a long story about happiness because in understanding happiness ,i really took a lot of time until i get the true meaning of happiness ,what is happiness ? Happiness is when you see everything in positive way ,you enjoy every moments of your life . that's happiness for me ,maybe for you its different .But i can say that happiness is the main key to improve your life yet i dont think that people would make time to think that they need happiness to improve their life ,because people tend to think how to be happy when they're sad not when they're happy. somebody says that we should also think how to be happy when we're happy not just when we're unhappy ,so one of my principles in life is to enjoy every moments whether its happy or sad moments.
"there's no duty we so much underrate as the duty of being happy"
I get started to think about happiness when i read a book titled"happiness project" my life back then was such a messy disastrous things ,i was always be happy but never aware of it . Then When i read this book i started to think about my own happiness project ,got started just a week ago ,and my life turned out so well ,organized and healthy.
However my project is still halfway ,not yet finished so i need to work it out .It's a really exciting things to do ,i see everything in many different perspective and i almost see no bad on every bad events. all things are just so positive.
Its good right to see things positively ,but then one day i told someone about my life and that person said " life has its downs and ups and maybe you're in your peak " maybe i'm being a gold star right now,and as we know life always has ups and down . It made me think that maybe someday i'll be someone with depression ,anxiety and so many negative thoughts. i was once that person ,and i made through it but i don't want to be the same ones again. it also made me think How to maintain my happiness ,as well as somebody says
"people tend to think how to be happy when they're sad not when they're happy. somebody says that we should also think how to be happy when we're happy not just when we're unhappy"
so i think that i'll stick with that perspective ,and also keep up with my principles which one of them is to
Enjoy every moments .
i also concluded that the person i talked with was the one who hasn't understood about happiness yet. As studies shows that people who happy tend to remember happy moments while people who's sad tend to remember sad moments.
A lesson is ,if you want to be happy then be happy, stop thinking about the negatives thoughts ,think about the good but yet be prepared for the worst.
surely its a very long story if i have to write every details of it .so maybe let's me just stop here but dont worry i'll keep updating what's going on .
be happy .
